Dear White People is a hit Netflix series that follows Logan Browning’s character, Samantha, in her journey at college. As can be inferred by the title, the series addresses critical social justice topics such as police brutality, backhanded compliments, the love of black culture, and black masculinity. By taking the perspective of a young, college student, it is able to attack immature prejudices that have trickled down from earlier generations. It does so by, non-offensively, confronting each dilemma, showing how black people interpret it, and the implications of such actions. Aside from obvious oppressions in society, interracial relationships--especially those involving black people--are still not widely accepted. The show puts a lot of effort into showing how the loathing of interracial relationships affects the black characters.
Sam attends an Ivy League college that only a handful of students from minority races are accepted into. These students form robust bonds with one another and fight to increase diversity and culture awareness around campus. Sam is the president of the Black Student Union and very educated on the injustices that black people in America face. However, she has a huge secret that she has been keeping from her friends and peers; she is in a furtive relationship with a white student, Gabe. They have sex, netflix and chill, and hang out in each other’s dorm rooms. They never go out on public dates or tell their friends about each other. Sam believes that as a black woman and the leader of the African American organization, she owes the loyalty to her people. She is afraid that if the news gets out that she is dating a white man, she will lose her credibility and respect to her peers. One day, Gabe takes a photo of Sam getting ready and posts it on his instagram and she immediately makes him remove the picture. He does not understand or relate to her not wanting her peers to know about their relationship. They have the typical “are you ashamed of me?” argument and get over it. However, to Sam’s dismay, the picture was screenshotted and circulated to all of her peers, where they confront her for dating a white male. The reaction that the black students give Sam is one that many minorities can relate to. We have been conditioned to oppression for so many centuries that stepping out of our own race to find love is seen as betrayal. It is considered “selling yourself out”. Dear White People emphasizes that black culture is a community that no members should find love outside of. We should be able to date anyone we want, regardless of their race, but, in reality, this still does not hold true.
With segregation occurring within the last sixty years, older generations of white people still struggle with accepting diversity. Some ridicule their family members for dating minorities while others blatantly disrespect the partner until they become comfortable with them (if ever). Get Out, a 2017 film by Jordan Peele, is an extreme example of the “crazy white family” stereotype. However, the purpose of the movie is to show that there is a mutual fear of racial crossbreeding.
This topic is very important to discuss, even in our progressive society. If we consider our society as moving more towards diversity and acceptance, we cannot scorn others for their dating preference. Though students in the honors program recognize and understand how humiliating this divide, even other students at Millikin are not as open to interracial relationships as we may expect. By addressing the latent prejudice, we can help make everyone feel comfortable about who they love.







